Something shifted in me after my conversation with John Brotherton, owner of Brotherton’s Black Iron BBQ in Pflugerville, TX.
I reached out to him for this interview because we are Facebook friends, and I admired his almost-decade-long journey of sobriety.
I had recently hit rock bottom — AGAIN, and recommitted (or so I thought) to my sobriety.
But it wasn’t until after our conversation that I really CHOSE to live a sober life.
And what I mean by “choosing” is, really embracing it.
Releasing the resistance that it was “supposed” to be anything other than what it was.
And going FULL-ON COMMITMENT.
You’ll hear John at 18:55 talk about when it shifted for him as a father.
His child, who was 6 at the time, impersonated him as a slurring, stumbling man.
Even though almost a decade has passed, John visibly got choked up talking about it.
It was moving to see a man who understands who he is, as he occurs to his children.
I had wrestled with various forms of addiction throughout my life as well, which includes a near-death experience 8 years ago that landed me in the ER.
I had cut back significantly on my alcohol consumption, but still drank socially, even though I knew deep down that consuming it at all was out of alignment with who I was.
Just a couple of weeks before speaking with John, I took my children to the movies for Father’s Day.
I told myself I “deserved a treat,” and let myself have a margarita for lunch beforehand.
My 12-year-old son remarked that he didn’t feel safe.
Mind you, we we were just on the other side of the parking lot of the movie theater, and if anything I had more of a sugar high than a buzz, but this was the moment I went back to in my mind when John mentioned how he was occurring to his son.
And as I time-traveled in this interview back to that point with my son, I was done.
And not just done, but HAPPY to be done.
And because I am happy to be done, I have given myself permission to enjoy so many other things.
And ironically, produce food + beer events that I actually look forward to.
And I get to WORK…with clarity, focus, and productivity.
Just like my guy John.
I hope you are as inspired by his journey as I was.
Maybe it’s your time to lay off the juice, maybe it’s not — “TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE,” and with or without substances, deep down I want you to party.
And either way, it is DEFINITELY time to pay him a visit, feed your face, and spread the love!